one of the most basic things you should learn in life is that you shall never hit a girl , hurt a girl is wrong, its super wrong, and there is no exception, and if you see any person doing this, you should go and break this guy into pieces!!!!!
i speak in here about i feel, about i see, and this weekend, in the middle of the street, in a european city, in a proper area, around 23.00, in front of a bar, with lots of people inside, and some outside, there was this guy shouting and slapping a girl...no one one did nothing...i know today people are afraid, of lawsuits, of being involved, of being hurt, of getting involved, but...how can you go home and know you didnt nothing???????
i am not looking for any trouble, i was just walking to my car, i was returning from the cinema, but i saw it, and i went to separated them, yes, in my mind i want to hurt the guy, this is one of things i truly hate, it drives me mad, furious, total crazy, seeing a man hitting a girl, i dont know why this is happening...i dont need to know, i dont care, it simply wrong...i push the guy to the floor....he was drunk, one of the people watching come forward, i was thinking, i am going for a fight, i dont care...i am still in a state that i have no fear, but no, he just say...he is drunk, that his girlfriend, she is leaving him and she was "cheating on him"....so this guy is a friend or at least know this guy...and he didnt nothing??? did he think that the fact he was drunk...or something happen gives him the reason to hit, to hurt, to slap a girl??? what is wrong with people today??? dont you have any respect? values??
if she did something wrong, if she cheat on you, or lie....them walk away, leave her!!! hurting her, beating her, is not right, its bloody wrong...there is not excuse, there is not reason why any man should do it!!! and if you think its right to do so, you must learn a lot about life, about love....and pray that you never come across me in your life....
in end the girl went away....the friends of the guy helping him stand up...he look at me, he start shouting that he was going to kill me...i look at his friends and say.....please, i dont want to fight, i dont want any trouble, just take him away....yes part of me wanted him to try to fight me, part of me want to hurt him, but the drunk guy and his group went inside the bar...but i also told his friends, you are all bloody cowards, you shouldnt never allowed your friend to hit a girl....they didnt say nothing...
how can you hit a girl??? how can you raise your hand for a person who loves you, you cares for???or that love you??? that was a part of your life...maybe you become separated, maybe there was some bad stuff....but hit her????...hurt her???with you for that??? what sort of person are you??? if you do this you are nothing them a bloody coward, a low life, you are scum!!!
what society are we living??? what values are teaching our kids???? what happen to respect?? to love??? to care??? to be a gentleman???? what happen to do something?? to stop a bad thing from happening??? last weekend i was shocked, not only there was this guy hitting a girl, but even more shocked that no one, and there was lots of people watching...no one didnt nothing??? how can this be possible????
i would prefer to be beaten by some guys while trying to stop a girl from being hurt,i prefer to be hurt, to get bruises, to be covered in blood, them going home knowing i saw a guy or guys hitting a women and did nothing...
some people think this is a "lower" class problem, that in today society this doesnt happen...its wrong, it happens, it happens in all walks of life, it happens in all the countries, it happen across all ages groups, and it happens because people let it happen, we all turn the blind eye...its not my problem...she did something...i should be involved in a private matter...hey...excuses...if you know...if you see it, broke the legs of the guy, hurt him, this is low, this is despicable, a man should never hurt a girl...
we all have problems, we all have high and lows in our relationships, but raise a hand, never, you can be furious, you maybe even scream, but never hit, if its bad, just walk away, go, walk your desert, walk through hell, i walk in hell, i am somehow still walking in hell, doesnt matter how bad it is, violence is not the answer...
and if you know a girl, if you are girl, who is being hurt, you may say...it was only once, he was drunk, he have problems, he was not himself...he loves me....sorry, a man you raise a hand to you doesnt love you, dont respect you, he is no good, there is no excuse...you need to move on, you need to respect yourself, there is nothing more wrong them a guy hitting you!!!! i guy that hits you, doesnt love you...is that simple..
love is not about violence, the true signs of you love is when you lose everything, whem you are facing a situation that there is no future, that life for you like wanted is over, is in lower moments of your life that you show your true colours and show to the other person how much them mean to you, even if your heart is full of hate, or pain, or desperation, you are man, you are a person of good, so show your true colours, leave her with respect, with love, even if you think she doesnt deserve it, you will prove to you and her, that you love her.
if you resort to violence, then you are not a man, you just a low life...
this problem has two sides, one is yourself, and as man, as person who love, you should never ever raise the hand to no women, never, for no reason, there is always a choice, there is always the option to walk out...violence is not and answer....and there is the other side, we should never consider this is ok, that you if know, or see it, and no nothing, you are some how being part of this violence...there is we all, we should never let this to happen, to be consider ok...nooooo---there is no grey areas, there is only one thing...act!!!! we all have a role to play, we all have a part to play, to be respectful towards women, to teach our kids to never resort to violence, to be gentleman, to be good, to have honour, to have virtue, that love is never an excuse to hurt others, life is not a walk in the park, its never easy, but a warrior will not hurt women, a warrior will walk away....
i would rather die protecting a women i dont know, that going home knowing i did nothing...
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