Life should be shared, we all have great moments when we are alone, we all have great victories all by ourself, but the best moments in our lifes should be shared!!! i have a clear vision of in 1988, i was flying from asia to home, and i lost my connection fligth in Paris, the next flight was in the evening, saw myself in airport in Paris at 5.00 in the morning, and decide to go to the city to insted of waiting for the next plane in the airport.
i was still very young, full of life in front, and that day teach me a lesson, that is some how related to "title" of this blog about sharing, moments, things, i arrive in paris with the city dark, i walk around the city at around 6.30 in the morning, i end up in this beautiful spot, the sun was rising, it was perfect, i was enjoying the moment, and i clear remember, i wish i had some one here to share this moment with me!!! this is first truth moment i was thinking...this would been so much better if i could share it with someone!! that memory is very vivid even today in my mind!
this is what i learn that day, and still sometimes we forget, life is supposed to be shared, and to share life we need to walk in life side by side with the person we love!!!!!
when you love someone, you should walk in life side by side, like equals partners, persons who support each other, who know doesnt matter what will be the problem, the trouble, there is always a friend, a lover, a partner there to support you, to share, to love, to fight with you!!! you know that you dont need to face the world alone, that you dont need to fight the world alone, you maybe are were able to fight and win alone, but when you have some one to share your fights, your problems, your joys, your victories, the problems reduce by half and the good things are doubled!!! this is the beauty of sharing, of having some one to walk side by side with you!!
this is what true love is, its not solving, its not do everything for the person you love, its being there at her/his side, and help and support, just this!!!
side by side is being honest, sharing everything, i didnt do this, i hide from Anna during the time we were together a dark secret in my family, one of my family members had a past with drugs...i never told Anna, why??? because i wanted to look perfect for her, i want to pretend my family had no problems, that we were a nice family, i told her later, i told her because i grow up, i learn that i shouldnt hide anything from the women i love, and its better that she learn it from me, and not being told by some one else, i hate drugs, i see what they can to do to family, i watch at close range, and never told her, because i think it was better, its not!!! if you are in serious relationship, if you think this is the person i want to share the rest of my life with, tell everything, about you, about your family, its about share, its about being equal partners, its about being two persons you walk in life like a couple, like to soulmates!
i know, its more easy not to share, its more easy to hide some things, its easier, but this is not true love, if you think that you dont want to share, if you dont be an equal partner, them you dont love for real!!! is money its a different thing??? should i share it??? if think your money is more important them the person you love...them you dont love...love is more important then any mateiral thing...its about your commitment to the person you love, that you will be always at her side, doesnt matter how bad the situation is, how tough the fight will be, even if you think you will not win a fight, you should be always at the side of the person you love!!! i will never leave the person i love face a issue alone! i will be there, not to fight for her, to do things for her, i will be there to fight at her side, to do things with her!!
so share, share the walks in the park, the sunsets, the cries, the pain,the bad days, the good days, the loses, the victories, share, because sharing you and your love will be walking side by side, you are walking together towards happiness, to be a true couple!!!!
I learn my lesson, i am ready to walk with Anna side by side for the rest of my life!!!
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