little things

In the big picture of life we tend to look at the big events, at the big actions, that big moments in life, but we forget that when we break up, when we fall in love, when we are in a relationship, its the little things that make us special, that make the true difference.

We think that buy expensive gifts once in a while is the way to show how we care, its nice, but we should keep this effort on the little things, and this little things happen every day, they are the things that make the difference between having a great partner, who truly loves and respect you and some one who is just there...

its about giving that unexpected kiss, that little touch, saying, you are the most beautiful women in the world, i love you, its about cleaning the house as surprise, its about preparing her a bath when she arrives home from work, its about wave to her while you go away, its about doing what you say, its about make her a little drawing, write her two lines and put in her book that she reads at night, i could go on....and you ask, hey, you did all that and you were in a relationship????

i didnt do all of this, i did a small part, i was part of the group that consider, hey, she knows i love her, i show it, by being here, by being honest faithful, its ok, i was thinking...this is a man way....and i know now, i as wrong, so so so so wrong. I learn, i learn the hard way it can be learned, you learn by losing, i lost the women i love!!!

but i learn, you are not me, you can dazzele your wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, etc, change the way you life every day, its the touch in the hand at breakfast, its eating together, its saving time for you and your lover, its about slipting the task, its about creating a feeling of love, a feeling of us,not me...not you...US!!! this is the little things we get every day, its by doing this every day that same couples, maybe not even realizing they do it, they are married for ever, they are happy, they resist the test of time, they seen so normal, they seen to do the same things like every one else, there is no apparent difference, people ask, why they dont get divorced, why they are still in love after all this years????? why...its the little things, watch the details, the attention to conversation, the smile, the way they treat each other, this is way same people stay together, and others dont, because one think, hey...she is glad that she have me, i dont need to prove my love every day...there is many other girls/guys out there...like this you are not going to make...

the trick is the little detail, the effort you do every day, the way you build your relationship, the way you walk side by side with your love, this is what makes a couple work out when all others seen to fail around...

I wish one day i could prove all of this to the women i love!!!! i wish i could tell her in 2052...40 years from know, while we are both old, and we have grey hair, and wringles, i hope i can look at her and say, we are still together, i was never so happy in my life, and you are the must beautiful girl in the world, and i wouldnt being lying, because for me, she will always be the must beautiful women in the world, she is the person i love!!!