marriage? why do people get married? what wearing a weeding ring means? i ask this question myself today, i had lunch in the gym, they have a nice place outside, i was eating and there was a family eating in the table close to me, the wife and husband and 3 girls, around 2 years old, maybe 6 and an older one 13/14, they didnt talk, they didnt look at each other, it was they were a group of stranger eating at the same table....
why people marry? i think we all marry for love!!! we all love each other in that day, we all believe in the love that units us, but what happen after?
I think a lot about marriage, as expression of love between two persons, not like a contract, not like something you have to do, no, like a show of dedication, a way to express to the other person, i am here for you for ever, you are the most important thing in my life, i love you!
marry someone should be about the force that unites us, that brings us together, its more them just one day, its more them just legal status, its two souls that decide to start a journey together, for ever!!
people live all their lifes side by side and not be married, and be happy, but why people are afraid of getting married? they are afraid things will change??? its not going to church for one day that makes you different, its the fact that you start treating the other person as a "done" fact, that you take the other person for granted, we all hear the stories, he/she was so nice when we were dating and now....why??? its because we stop making an effort...like that family next to me on sunday...i want to shout at them....are you stupid???? dont you see what you have??? dont you value each other????
maybe they will tell their friends how tough life is....but what they do to change it?? nothing, they play with the phones, the computers...the paper...
I know i will never be like this, i know the value of each day, of the little things...of daily effort, but i am not married, i dont know if one day i will be....do i want to be married? yes!! I am afraid? of course not!!!
do the fact of wake up with the same person scares me??? nooooooo.....there is nothing that i want more them wake up every day at Anna side!!!! there is nothing bettter them see her every day, to be with her, to share her good moments, help in the tough ones...this is what i want from life, the best to show my commitment, my love, my dedication, care, joy would be marry her!!!
there is no doubt, no hesitation in here, if i could i would marry her tomorrow, i would be there at her side for ever...
if you read this blog, see marriage not as end, but as start, a door to a even better life, a place where where heaven is made by you and your love, see this as a celebration of love, not a formality, a social thing, no...weeding show the entire world that you love this person, that you want her/him, only her, only for you, for ever!!!!! see being happy as a blessing, the best thing that could happen to you....but dont forget, the life doesnt stop in that day, the effort, the love, the caring that you gave to reach the weeding should be the same that you treat your partner every day after that!!!! love is not something you can store, you have to enjoy it , believe it, caring it, every day!!!!
take my words, and conquer the person you love and show that she is the only one for you, ask her to marry you!!!!!
i dont know where life will take me, i dont know how will be my future....i dont know if i will be blessed with a weeding day, but my wish ins one...I want to change only one thing in Anna, her last name, i want her to be my wife...for ever!!!!!!
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