Respect

To be happy, to make others happy, you must respect yourself, you must be able to be a person that you and your first must be able to respect!!

You may not like the decision other people will take, you may think that they are wrong, you may not even understand them, but  you need to respest the decsions of others!!!!

Respect is the base for a lot of things in life, its about you giving the other person a choice in their lifes, and you about deciding what you can accept or not in your life!!

If some one will ask to not see you, you are not going to "pass by", you may want to see her, you know where she lives, where she is, you may dont even understand why, but dont even think about going there, no!! respect her decision and respect yourself!!! you are not stray dog who was abandon by the owner!!! no, be man,!! its not easy, but it a decsion some one took, and you have to choices, to take it like a man, and respect this, or be a bad need person and keep passing bye, keep trying to show yourself!!!

I travel to place of the person i care so much, she said she dont want to see me, i know where she live, where she worked, i would have go there, i could have pass by her house, so see, to check...no, i will never do that!!! why??? respect for her and me!!! i hope she know me to know i would enver do that!!!!!! if she want to put me out of her life she just need to say it, i will not understand, i will not be happy, but i will respect her decision!! it her decison!

i do this because its a question of respecting myself, there is nothing worse for your self eesten them beg for some to love your, to pitty you!!! you dont get any love this way, and if you do its the worse sort, its a negative force, its a source that will bring you down with time!!!

you need to respect yourself, you need to true to yourself, look at yourself, see if you are part of the soluction or the problem, and deal with your issues, make yourself a better person, a happier person, a stronger person!!! this is what i do now,  i am rebuilding my self, a better happier me, and its going in the right direction, the path to your happiness is the road that sometimes you have walk alone, make yourslef happy and you can make others happy!!!

Respect is also be honest, is a two way street, if you are not treated with respect, you will not be able to respect the other part!!!

right now i look at tme and i can respect myself, i can be a source for good, and now this is enough for me!!!!