Today during the day, while i was eating lunch in restaurant, with a beach in front, i was watching the kids playing and some parents looking the paper with a bored look in the faces, couples fighting for some minor things, couples who seat with newspapers and magazines, and let the kids play, like they stop caring.
If you look around, if you look at your friends, maybe even relatives, how much of this relationships are a fake, people who stop long time ago to make an effort, still they stay together, for a public show, because that is the "right" thing, but they are not happy because they don’t want to make an effort, i wacth their interation with thekids, there is no happinsess, they shout, they are indifferent, they are very intolerent, like its their kids faults that their lifes are not bettrer, they are strict, always saying NO, dont do that seat here, stand strait!!!! i was eating and i was watching and i was thinking, i could i think being strict was a good thing???
i saw this kids, they had no joy in their eyes, i saw today lots couples where an effort is not done long time ago!!!
A family, a relationship is something with the life, if you don’t feed it, if you don’t treat well, if you don’t invest in it with will die, it will stop, today i had a lesson in life, people break up, divorce, lose their loves and try to look for outside answers, maybe they should look inside their hearts, how much did i invest in making this person happy???
its not about buying expensive gifts, it’s not about how much money you have, is how much you show to the person you love she is the most important thing to you, how much times you told her how beautiful she is, how much you surprise her with a little card, a flower, a surprise office visit, a kiss when she doesn’t expects it, a love declaration? if stop feeding your relationship, just like any flower, it will dry and die!!! and then you have just two people on table, each one reading a different set of papers and both shouting at their kids...this is sad, because this two people in the past love each other, they stop is caring!!!!
I lost my love, not because we didn’t love each other, because we move apart, different job locations, and we talk on the phone every day, but its not the same was being there, you come home to an empty house, you speak with your love for 30 minutes and everything is fine, no its not fine, its about also with waiting and risk, you cannot wait, you cannot be afraid, you cannot take care of a flower if you are not there every day to feed and water it, its the some with a relationship, you need to be present, you need to be there, and you need to make an effort every day!!!!! Maybe you say, its too much, she knows, you are being a wimp!!! NOOOO!!! how can say its to much to show how much you love someone? How can you say i am wimp to show to the women i love how much i care about her!!!! its not about being needy or possessive, is about being nice, its about creating an environment where she knows she is loved and secured!!! its about bring her happiness!!!
if you fail to do this, you run the risk that someone else will offer her this....so don’t be stupid, if you don’t love, fine, don’t do the effort, but i love, i love so much it hurts, i can promise her, we will be never like the couples i saw today, we will be always happy, because i will never take our love for granted, and i will keep it always alive!! every day effort!!!!!
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